A Ritual Bath Recipe for Love and Happiness

This coconut rose ritual bath recipe is a great way to spice up your relationship or manifest that dream date.

Whether you want to add a little spice between you and your partner or help bring the attraction between you back, this bath is just what you need! Relationships work with an ebb and flow. Sometimes your partner is more attentive and present for you and sometimes, less available. The original connection can grow dimmer and relight over and over again. Sometimes that flame can even extinguish. This doesn’t mean that letting go of the relationship is truly necessary; it can just be a matter of reigniting that energy and connection.

Coconut Rose Ritual Bath Recipe & Ritual


Handful of fresh red rose petals

Handful of fresh pink rose buds

10–12 sliced strawberries

12–15 raspberries

10 fresh hibiscus flowers

Handful of fresh or dried damiana

10–12 fresh catnip sprigs

Pinch of saffron

Handful of fresh honeysuckle

2 tbsp (30 ml) honey

1 pink candle

½ cup (48 g) coconut milk powder

1 garnet

1 red jasper

1 rose quartz

The Ritual

Create your bath tea or place the herbs directly in your bathwater. Take the time to enchant each herb and ask it to work for your intention as you set them one by one into the water.

Light your candle and set it on the edge of the tub or in front of you on a tub tray. If you are making the bath tea, place your candle inside of the pot or bowl and let it burn down before adding the tea to the bathwater. Crumble the coconut milk powder between your fingers into the bathwater. Swirl your hand through the water, mixing it in while imagining you and your partner. Place the crystals in the bathwater or set them on the edge of the tub or on a bath tray. You can also hold the crystals as you sit in meditation.

Relax in the bath. Close your eyes and picture in your mind’s eye you and your partner together. Imagine walking together, talking, laughing, and holding hands, and call in that new feeling of excitement you had when you first met. What were all the things that attracted you to them in the first place? Make a mental note and focus on that feeling.

Relax in the bath for 20 to 30 minutes, focusing on your intention. Don’t rinse off; just pat yourself dry. You can carry the crystals with you, or place them somewhere you can see them to remind you of this ritual. Let the candle burn down completely.


Reprinted with permission from Ritual Baths for the Beginner Witch by Ally Sands. Page Street Publishing Co. 2023. Photo credit: Ally Sands.

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